Dan's dad, Jon, is the president of public finance for Zion's Bank and he was recently assigned to direct their office in Boston as well. (Yeah. Zions Bank has an office in Newton, Massachusetts. From my understanding it's two ladies and that's about it.) Which means that he will be flown out here for work periodically. Bonus for us! So the second week of November Jon had to come out to work for a few days and he was able to bring my mother-in-law with him.
Dan's mom was here last Spring and Jon has been to Boston before as well, so we got to mostly just hang out and have fun together. (Plus it was cold. No one wants to wander around Boston too much in November.)
We took Jon by to see Dan's office in Watertown.
Jon took this adorable picture of Jonny at Dan's office.
Drove up to see the temple and tried not to freeze.
Jon treated us to a trip to the Science Museum downtown. That place is amazing and we had so much fun.
View from the museum.
Tornado!
Brushing teeth.
Jon and Atticus worked together on a science "Mick-speerient" I kept Renee busy the whole time helping me make Jonny's quilt for her upcoming big girl bed.
We lucked out that it was also the primary program that weekend. The kids in our ward are given a prompt and then they write their own part. Ugh, it was like pulling teeth. His prompt was something like "I can be like Jesus by..." and everything I tried to get out of him was basically "be nice" We were finally able to talk through what kinds of things Jesus wants us to do to be nice and why, and he was able to come up with something pretty great. (At least I think it was.)
"I saw a person that said she was homeless and hungry. I felt sad and and wanted to help because Jesus wants us to be nice. We gave her some money and I felt peace in my heart."
I had to sit on the stand with my sunbeams. (One of whom refused to say her part and then wouldn't do anything but sit on my lap, where she fell asleep and drooled down my dress.) My seat was directly in front of Atticus so I didn't get to watch him, but I could see Jonny watching him some of the time and I heard her yell "Hi Yeah-Yeah!"
Primary Program day!
We got to go to lunch with Nana-Nae and Dan while Jon was working and Atticus was at school. She thought she was such a big girl.
Reading about the silly turkeys with Nana-Nae
The timing of Jon being sent out here for work really was a miracle and my mother-in-law is a saint. I had a trip planned home because my dad was having major surgery and I was leaving the day after Jon was set to fly home. Because of this, Renee was able to stay for an extra few days to take care of my kids so I could go and Dan wouldn't miss work.
I was flying home because my dad was having brain surgery. The doctors had found a 24mm acoustic neuroma. It was a benign tumor and one that is often found and removed, from my understanding. My dad had not had any of the usual symptoms, (it was discovered kind of as a fluke on the hunch of my mom's audiologist) so his was a lot bigger than they usually are when removed. They estimated he had had it for about a decade.
I flew out as a surprise to him the day after his surgery. (I didn't want to be stuck on an airplane the day of and not be able to get updates. He was super out of it still when I got there and his first response to me was, "Well, what are you doing here?" Which makes me laugh.
The next several days were spent at the University Hospital with my parents, older sister, Stefanie, and older brother, Jonathan (who had also flown out to surprise both my parents as well). My younger siblings who have small kids and school were up as much as possible as well. I was so grateful I was able to be there with my family and support my parents. It was such a relief to be there instead of just hearing updates and wishing I could do something.
His wicked scar!
As part of the procedure they had to cut out one of his balance centers (I may have my lingo and what that is actually called and how that all works completely wrong, but you get the gist.) So we helped him practice walking the halls several times a day. Two to help support him, one to make sure "the back door" of his hospital gown stayed shut, and one walking backward in front of him reminding him to look up instead of at the floor. My arm was killing me the first two days, but he improved pretty quickly so that he was supporting himself a lot more.
Oh, and that is Jonathan's mustache.
Dean got lots of attention and it wore him right out.
My sisters and I hiding behind a blanket so we wouldn't get a shot of "the back door" opening, or something like that.
Except for my mother, who was there day and night (I don't know how she survived), Stefanie was there the most doing all she could for my parents.
Snuck away one night with my siblings (and Avery!) to Chanon Thai Cafe. I would keep this kid, who is only 11 weeks younger than Jonny. She is pretty great.
They actually sent my dad home a couple of days early because he was doing so well. I was the one that drove him home, and pulling out of the pickup area at the hospital he got super nervous telling me to slow down. I was going 17 MPH. But all the balance issues (plus he had lost hearing in his right ear) was really messing with him. In fact reading or even watching TV for more than a few minutes at a time was hard. The poor man was sooo bored.
He lived on the couch for the next little while, and both my parents were exhausted.
Some fun to kill the boredom.
I clearly have no shame.